Always and Forever

What do we really know about always? The dictionary says, "For all times, Forever." It also says that Forever means, "For everlasting time, At all times, A seemingly very long time." Sounds like they might mean the same things?

I have been seeing these words creating a lot of problems for people. They vowed "Forever" or say "Always" and are stuck in that black hold where there is no end.

My son, Loren told me not to use those words because we have no way of knowing how they will affect our lives in the future.

Nothing should be always. If we have an always that goes on and on, how do we create something different to learn from? We need for things to end. I once took a class and they were teaching the anatomy of control. They said that to be in control of something means that you start it, change it and stop it.

So if you start something and it goes on forever, you are not in control? A lot of people start things but never finish them. Does that mean that their things go on forever? Usually it means the person involved is not in control of his world.

Then there are people who never start anything but they are always changing everything. Again, out of control.

How about the ones that want to put a stop to everything? "We can't do that anymore." "Don't chew gum." "Don't talk." they think that they are the ones in control but with all that stop, stop, they really lose more control than they gain. And the sad part is that they never get to start anything nice.

It must be very draining to never see a project completed. To wonder what it will look like whenever it does get done. I know that it is very annoying to have those around them, who are always changing things. And "Stop" usually can only create fear or resentment.

Always used to be a word that I like using. I will always be married, in love, faithful, of service, kind and so many other things that I tagged onto the always. Then I found out that "always" really doesn't service me as a person.

How about the vow of "always" to a mate in the years 1437 that is still being run out in 2007. They haven't figured out that they don't have to have this "always" in their lives but they are stuck in this rut. They have learned what they needed to from the two personalities but now are stuck with "always."

I have a sister that I am sure took a vows of poverty and servitude many lifetimes ago. She still has to give away anything that she gets so she never has enough for herself. Her vows are not serving her in this lifetime but she didn't really believe at the time that she said, "Forever" it was as long as it really is.

When one thinks about the vastness of the universe, the infinity of it all, why would a infinity God create a finite world? He didn't. At the end of this lifetime it doesn't say, THE END. God wouldn't have wanted it that way. He created us to experience and unless your life is much more exciting than mine...like they say in show business, you haven't seen nothing yet.

We get to experience the Good, the Bad and the Ugly, along with a whole lot more that makes living the adventure that it is.

Have you seen all the rainbows, all the sunsets, all the cute things that happen on a daily basis? No, because it takes a long time to do all of that.

When we put "always" out there it locks us into a future that is cyclical. When we have been locked-in for so long, it amazes me that some of us can function at all. We have all these old rules that hamper our present time decisions.

There are things that we would like to try but when we start them, we bump into our old rules. In order to be able to function in present time, we need to undo all our past vows that had "always" and "forever" attached. It is possible to rescind old rules that no longer serve us but most of us don't know how to do this. It is simply the rescinding of all old vows that we have ever made in past lifetimes. This might need to be done more than once. The rule of thumb is that one should do this three times.

Once this is done, (or if done a couple of times over a period of time) one should be able to mover ahead and create things that seem impossible.

When was the last time you experienced what another person was thinking or feeling? Haven't you ever wanted to walk throught a wall? How about levitation? Or even manifesting what you want or need today? All things are possible when we let go of the barriers in our thinking.